Technique and principle of Gift Swapping

Exchange of gift is an act of giving an article to somebody and receiving something else in return. The gift-exchange is the basis of social life. If the spirit with which the gift is given is pure then there should be no expectation of equivalent return because presents are tools to show our affection to family members and friends. Exchanging presents on special occasions like birthdays and festivals are the ritual that allows us to celebrate and recreate personal relations with the anonymous objects available to us.

Reflection on gifts and their paradoxes are mentioned in almost all scriptures, where humans are reminded that everything they have is a gift from God, for which they must be grateful and which should inspire them to give to others.

Apart from festivals, there are endless reasons to give gifts throughout the year. Personal gifts for birthdays, weddings, graduations, and holidays as well as business gifts to say thank you , congratulations or I’m sorry . The purpose of giving gifts is to bring joy to both the giver and receiver, promote goodwill and make for a closer relationship. However, if gift-giving goes amiss, there is a probability of putting the receiver in awkward state and creating disagreeable situation for both sides. Following points can help to avoid any ill-effects from your gift-giving practices.

Considerations while giving-

1. Remember the purpose of gifting.Before selecting the gift consider the occasion and what do you want to convey through your present.

2. Be observant about the receiver.To know the wish list you should follow him/her on social networking site so that you can present his/her favourite item. Also do your homework to know favourite colour and hobbies.

3. Learn religious and cultural differences.While giving formal presents to business relations and to distant friends you should know about their ethnic and cultural practises to avoid hurting their sentiments.

4. Present your gift with style. The best way to present a gift is always beautifully wrapped and in person. And when you do, present your gift held with both your hands to show the utmost respect and care. If you are sending the gift by messenger or mail, include a card along with a handwritten note on personal note card.

Considerations while receiving-

1. Express appreciation while receiving a gift in person. Always put a smile on your face as a gift is being presented. Receive the gift with both hands and say thank you.

2. The sender as soon as a gift has arrived. Make every effort to let the sender know you received a gift sent by him/her.

3. Be sensitive to opening a gift in front of others.Formal gifts should not be opened in front of the giver. For personal gifts it depends upon relationship between giver and receiver. But be sure not to give any disappointed expression even if you did not like the gift.

Consider these tips and enjoy Gift Exchange with your near and dear ones.